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Mom’s Blog: Infusing Love

Infusing Love: Meet Heather, a Brand New Hemo Mom

May 26, 2017

  My life was flipped upside down nearly 3 weeks ago when I became a hemophilia mom. To say that I was shocked is a true understatement. What I thought were little bruises because I had shoved my son Maddox into his bumbo seat, turned out to be a disorder that would affect my baby […]

Infusing Love: Hit the Road, Jack

May 18, 2017

  Every hemo mom has the day she must send her child off on an overnight school trip, trusting that she has done everything she can to prepare her child for the responsibility of being on their own. My time came a few weeks ago when my son went to Orlando with his Sing Out […]

Infusing Love: A or B (Arthritis or Bleed?)

May 10, 2017

Back in the 鈥渙ld days鈥 before prophylaxis (prophy), hemophiliacs were treated on demand when they had a bleed. Max is just old enough to fall into that category so he didn鈥檛 switch to prophy until he was five years old. By then he had already had enough bleeds in his left ankle that the damage […]

Infusing Love: Life Imitates Art

May 3, 2017

When ABC premiered, 鈥淪peechless鈥 last fall, I wasn鈥檛 sure if it would meet my expectations. Would it show special needs parenting and family life in a realistic, often sarcastic way, or would it have the feel of an afterschool special? I鈥檓 happy to say it鈥檚 readily become one of a handful of shows we watch […]

Infusing Love: Changes

April 28, 2017

As parents of a nearly twenty five year old son, my husband George and I have enough to write a book about being the parents of a child with severe hemophilia B. There are so many ups and downs raising Michael over the years. Our most recent up and down has been the transition of […]

Infusing Love: Virtual Hugs

April 19, 2017

  I need to send a big hug and thank you to all the bleeder moms who have supported me. I thank you for the endless support you continue to give me. But I especially need to send a special hug to the one mom who has been there to pick me up these last […]

Infusing Love: A Letter to A Mentor

April 12, 2017

  Dear Corey, Max was 2 or 3 years old when I first met you. I had been told about this conference happening in Sturbridge, Massachusetts. I really didn鈥檛 even know what it was for, but at that point I was desperate to be connected with anyone who had hemophilia. It was a little shocking […]

Infusing Love: Radical Change

March 29, 2017

  When my son Thomas came into the world, he radically changed my knowledge base about hemophilia and other bleeding disorders. As this March comes to an end, I鈥檝e been thinking about how far we鈥檝e come as a family since Thomas鈥檚 diagnosis. I decided to look for the original email we sent to friends and […]

Infusing Love: This Is Us

March 22, 2017

  My mighty warrior, Caeleb, still has an inhibitor. His Bethesda Unit (BU) is less than one and his half-life is less than four hours, so we have a ways to go. His BU has reached zero a few times, and I was thrilled! It was a victory, and when you live with an inhibitor […]

Infusing Love: 隆S茅 agradecido!

March 15, 2017

No importa en la circunstancia en que nos encontremos siempre tenemos una raz贸n por la cual estar agradecidos.聽聽 A lo largo de mi carrera como maestra de escuela elemental por m谩s de 15 a帽os y ahora como coordinadora de programas en HFA, he tenido la oportunidad de conocer a muchas personas. Maravillosas personas con caracter铆sticas […]

Infusing Love: Being Bored Isn鈥檛 A Bad Thing

March 8, 2017

I always look forward to reading the weekly Infusing Love Mom Blogs. I enjoy reading about the lives of other caregivers and their perspective on their particular journey or story they take the time to share with readers. I usually have something noteworthy to write about. With three active kids who have chronic illnesses, one […]

Infusing Love: We Are Family

March 1, 2017

  Since my son Thomas was born thirteen years ago, I鈥檝e come to think of the bleeding disorders community as family. Relatively speaking, that feeling came to us very quickly after meeting people in the community. My husband and I jumped right into attending events, volunteering, and generally asking questions of medical providers and anyone […]

Infusing Love: Laugh or Cry

February 23, 2017

Anyone who knows me or has read any of my previous blogs, knows that our household basically revolves around baseball. If the weather is nice and I鈥檓 not at work, I鈥檓 at the baseball field. Sometimes it makes life a little crazy, but it makes Nick really happy and that is what鈥檚 most important. My […]

Infusing Love: Six Lessons Learned

February 15, 2017

  A lot has changed since my daughter was diagnosed with a platelet storage pool deficiency in 2011. Initially, there was little information and case studies to look to for reassurance. Not having a treatment plan led to many fears, doubts, and unknowns and wondering if I could make it through another injury or trip […]

Infusing Love: The Right Time

February 8, 2017

聽 There is this one conversation I鈥檝e had repeatedly with dozens of parents over the past ten years. It always revolves around our desire to be protective and shelter our kids. A child鈥檚 early years should feel safe. However, we know they cannot stay innocent forever. We do want them to grow up to be […]

Infusing Love: Bleeds Hurt

February 1, 2017

  A couple of months ago, my 8th grade son with hemophilia had 鈥淔uture Bruin鈥 night at the high school he will be attending next year. Any time we have to think about making a school move with him it induces anxiety for me as I start thinking about the process we鈥檒l have to go […]

Infusing Love: I鈥檒l Be Ready

January 25, 2017

Every day, I am reminded of how quickly time passes. My kids will only be little for a very short period of time. As working parents, we always tend to wish the days away in order to get to the weekends when we can take a deep breath, relax, and prep for another busy week […]

Infusing Love: Now What?

January 18, 2017

聽 This week the Infusing Love Mom鈥檚 Blog will tackle a touchy subject: What happens to health care in 2017? Is there a replacement for the ACA that will offer support and protections? Whether your politics lay left, right, or center, as a community, we all live with having bleeding disorders in our lives and […]

Infusing Love: Single But Not Alone

January 11, 2017

Being a single parent is challenging for anyone. Being the single parent of a child with a severe, costly chronic illness comes with its own set of issues. I remember the times that Max unable to attend events that were geared toward fathers and sons. I once called our chapter office when Max was around […]

Infusing Love: Smells and Sounds

January 4, 2017

The senses of sound聽and smell are very powerful. Sometimes a smell can spark a memory of a wonderful meal simmering on a stove or the smell of the air from a perfect breeze on a spring day can transport us back. The sounds of elevators dinging as people anxiously wait their turn and the sliding […]

Infusing Love: Naughty or Nice 鈥 It鈥檚 a Choice

December 28, 2016

One of my co-workers often uses the phrase unconscious incompetence. It essentially means you just don鈥檛 know what you don鈥檛 know. The recent election surprised many. I鈥檒l stay away from the politics but I can鈥檛 help but reflect on the flippant comments made by a constitutional law professor post-election who referred to those who were […]

Infusing Love: Growing Up So Fast

December 14, 2016

  This week鈥檚 Infusing Love entry is a poem co-written by our longtime blogger, Kari, and her daughter, Scarlett. I’m learning to be safer, watch my step, and stay out of harms way. Each day a new lesson, on how to exercise and how to play! I might start off feeling intimidated, scared or shy. […]

Infusing Love: Taking a Stand

December 7, 2016

  Every day we advocate for our children and ourselves. Our advocacy ranges on a small scale such as requesting a drink refill when we need one at restaurant to advocating for our children on a larger scale when requesting a doctor to infuse your child before any sort of x-ray when in an emergency […]

Infusing Love: A Boy & His Dog

November 30, 2016

Thomas had a stuffed animal when he was little. “Dog*” went through a lot with us. He was a constant companion, friend and source of comfort. Dog stayed in the hospital, went to clinic visits and traveled with us. We would literally pack factor for an ER visit with one hand and grab Dog with […]

Infusing Love: He Needed Me

November 23, 2016

I am exhausted. So very exhausted. I am pleading to myself that there isn鈥檛 something wrong; that the whimpers and small cries I hear as he sleeps aren鈥檛 there and that it is from sleep deprivation. I am drifting in and out of sleep on the baby glider that still graces his room even though […]

Infusing Love: Finding His Voice

November 9, 2016

    Recently a friend shared a quote that really resonated with me: 鈥淎 negative mind will never give you a positive life.鈥 I recited that quote at least one hundred times the day she shared it. I even had to find a pretty Google image of the quote, print it off, and hang it […]

Infusing Love: Sisterly Bond

October 26, 2016

I adore the 鈥淥n This Day鈥 feature on Facebook. It is a wonderful way to look back at the past to see what has happened on any given day in past years. It often reminds me of those moments that may have slipped my mind in a blur of parenting madness over the last fifteen […]

Infusing Love: Stealing My Joy? Never!

October 19, 2016

  For over a year my family has lived like most everyone else in the world.聽 We get up, go to work and school, have fun, go on trips, eat and play鈥.it鈥檚 all very good.聽 Our oldest son has gone away to college and our youngest is in the fifth grade. The blessing has been […]

Infusing Love: Normal Is as Normal Does

October 12, 2016

As I have become more involved in the hemophilia community over the last few years, and read more stories online, it is evident that each person with hemophilia and the people caring for them have such different experiences with bleeds and treatments. When Chris was young, we were told Chris wasn鈥檛 your 鈥渢ypical鈥 child with […]

Infusing Love: Respecting Our Elders

October 5, 2016

I have been thinking a lot about my role in my bleeding disorder community as Max becomes an adult. Where is my place as a mom of an adult son with hemophilia? I have been given the gift of having a job that keeps me connected and involved, but what about the other old timers? […]


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