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WEAVING A
VIBRANT TAPESTRY

Challenges and celebrations                                                                                obviously I’m different,” said Matthew
living an authentic life as an                                                                             Porges of New York. “The things they
LGBTQIA+ person with                                                                                       talked about were just not what I was
a bleeding disorder                                                                                        interested in.” Porges recalls that while
                                                                                                           he was able to blend in with his Blood
  BY ANDY                                                  Like a vibrant tapestry,                        Brothers, there was a part of him that
  ANDERSON,                                                individual experiences unite                    wasn’t being embraced. He feels there
  GUEST WRITER                                             to create something bigger                      is more support today for young people
                                                           than ourselves. Just as is the case in          who are coming out.
     Articles written by guest writers are personal                                                        Guadalupe Mota, who sits on the board of
     opinions and a representation of individual           society at large, some voices within the        Fenway Health, an LGBTQIA+ healthcare
     experiences. While extensive efforts are made         bleeding disorders community may be             system in the Boston area, feels there
     to ensure the accuracy of the content, the guest      marginalized. This past June, which the         is a ‘tension between two identities.’
     written articles do not represent HFA or its Board    United States sets aside as Pride month,        Having hemophilia is a big part of how
     of Directors and is not intended to be construed      LGBTQIA+ members of the bleeding                he connects to others — so is being gay.
     as medical advice or the official opinion/position    disorders community shared their                Between his work in biopharmaceuticals
     of HFA, its staff or its Board of Directors. Readers  experiences.                                    and as a board member for Fenway
     are strongly encouraged to discuss their own
     medical treatment with their healthcare provider.     “There’s a sense that the bleeding              “The strength I
                                                           disorders community is very diverse,”
               MATT                                        says Shellye Horowitz, licensed school            developed as a
          PORGES                                           counselor. From her home in California,           child gave me the
                                                           Shellye talked about her experiences              fortitude and power
8                                                                                                            to come out and be
                                                            as a queer woman with hemophilia.                proud of who I am.
                                                                       “We have different religions,
                                                                            different politics, but                            ­— Guadalupe Mota
                                                                               we are united by a
                                                                                 disorder that is serious  Health, he wears many hats. Both
                                                                                  enough that it helps     identities are an important part of who
                                                                                  us transcend our         he is, and it’s not so easy or necessary to
                                                                                  differences.”            separate one from the other.
                                                                                                           “The strength I developed as a child
                                                                                  Yet people with          gave me the fortitude and power to
                                                                                  bleeding disorders       come out and be proud of who I am,” he
                                                                                 who do not identify       said. Increased visibility of LGBTQIA+
                                                                              as heterosexual or           people and a willingness to discuss
                                                                           cisgender may not feel          experiences paves the way for a reality
                                                                       entirely welcome at the table.      where a queer identity and a bleeding
                                                                                                           disorder are treated not as contradictions
                                                           “I remember when I was a junior in high         or overlapping challenges, but simply as
                                                           school. They sent a group of us [teenage        two parts of a whole person.
                                                           boys with hemophilia] for research. We          Going beyond the simple inclusion of
                                                           spent a weekend being asked questions.
                                                           We all have bleeding disorders, but
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